The Practice of Not Being Carried Away

The Practice of Not Being Carried Away

In the Buddha’s time, a king’s elephant was not simply a sign of status or strength. It was a symbol of reliability. On the battlefield, everything was overwhelming—noise, movement, pain, hunger, fear. An elephant that reacted to every sound or sensation could not be trusted. It would panic, freeze, or run. But a well-trained elephant could remain steady in the midst of chaos. Because of that steadiness, it could carry the king safely and serve as a true support for the kingdom.

The Buddha uses this image to point directly to our own minds.

Most of us know what it feels like to be an untrained elephant. A sight appears, and desire immediately follows. A sound arises, and irritation flares. A smell, a taste, a memory, or a bodily sensation pulls the mind away before we even realize what has happened. The world touches the senses, and the mind reacts automatically. We lose balance, not because the experience is overwhelming, but because we have not yet learned how to stay present with it.

This is not a moral failure. It is simply the natural condition of an untrained mind.

The Buddha does not say that the problem is sights, sounds, smells, tastes, or bodily sensations. These are part of being alive. The problem is the loss of steadiness that follows when craving or resistance takes over. When the mind is pulled outward by desire or contracts inward through aversion, it can no longer rest in itself. In those moments, we are carried by our reactions rather than guided by awareness.

Training begins by noticing this movement.

Each time we see something pleasant and feel the tug of wanting, we have an opportunity to pause. Each time we encounter discomfort or irritation, we can feel how quickly the mind tightens and pulls away. This moment of noticing is already a step toward steadiness. We are no longer completely lost in the reaction; awareness has begun to stand its ground.

A trained elephant does not become blind or deaf. It still sees the battlefield and hears the roar of war. In the same way, a trained mind does not numb itself or retreat from life. It feels fully. It simply does not lose itself in what it feels. Pleasure is known as pleasure. Pain is known as pain. Desire is known as desire. None of these have to be suppressed, and none of them need to be obeyed.

This is where true freedom begins.

When we can experience something without immediately chasing it or pushing it away, the mind starts to settle naturally. It becomes less scattered, less reactive. We discover that peace does not depend on perfect conditions. The noise does not have to stop. The discomfort does not have to disappear. What changes is our relationship to experience.

Over time, this steadiness becomes a form of inner strength.

A steady mind is not dramatic or forceful. It is quiet and dependable. It can stay with difficulty without collapsing and enjoy pleasure without clinging. Because of this, it becomes a refuge not only for ourselves but for others as well. People sense when someone is not easily shaken. Such a presence offers safety, patience, and clarity in a world that often feels unstable.

The Buddha describes this as becoming a “field of merit,” not because of status or words, but because a steady mind naturally supports goodness. Actions that arise from mindfulness tend to be kinder, wiser, and less harmful. When the mind is not constantly being dragged around by the senses, compassion has space to appear.

Training the mind in this way does not happen all at once. It happens in ordinary moments. When we eat, can we taste without grasping? When we hear criticism, can we feel the sting without immediately reacting? When we feel tired, hungry, or uncomfortable, can we stay present instead of becoming overwhelmed?

Each of these moments is part of the training.

Little by little, the mind learns to trust itself. Like the royal elephant, it becomes something steady enough to carry what matters most. Not power or control, but clarity, compassion, and freedom.

When the senses are no longer masters and no longer enemies, the mind can stand firmly in the middle. From that place, the path becomes clear—not as an escape from the world, but as a way of meeting it with wisdom and care.

Link: https://wisdomtea.org/2026/01/08/the-practice-of-not-being-carried-away/