Staying Steady Through the Day

There was once a monk named Anuruddha who, even while suffering from severe illness, managed to keep his mind calm and undisturbed. When other monks came to visit and asked him, “How are you managing to stay so peaceful in the middle of all that pain?” — he replied:

“I dwell with my mind grounded in mindfulness. That’s what keeps the pain in the body from invading the peace of the heart.”

That might sound like something reserved for monks in distant forests — but it’s actually something we can all apply, right here in our everyday lives.

It doesn’t mean we pretend pain isn’t there. It doesn’t mean we push it away or ignore it. It means we learn to stay with our experience — with gentleness, clarity, and perspective — so that the body might be hurting, but the heart doesn’t have to collapse around it.

Anuruddha practiced this through four kinds of mindfulness. First, by being present with the body. In your day, this might look like taking a few conscious breaths when you feel tension in your shoulders. It might mean noticing when you’re slumping in your chair or rushing through your steps. Feeling the weight of your feet on the ground while you stand in line. Bringing awareness to eating, walking, stretching — whatever the body is doing. Even when the body is tired or in pain, you can say: “This is what the body feels like right now — and it’s okay to notice it.”

Second, he was honest with feelings. This means simply noticing: “This feels pleasant.” “This feels unpleasant.” “This feels neutral.” Without needing to fix it, chase it, or reject it. In daily life, this could be feeling a pang of irritation in traffic and just naming it: “Irritation is here.” Or noticing how good a cup of tea feels and enjoying it fully — without clinging. Or recognizing loneliness or stress when it arises — and breathing with it. You don’t have to drown in your feelings or pretend they’re not there. You just stay with them like a kind observer: “This is what’s here right now. And that’s okay.”

Third, Anuruddha was curious about the mind. Throughout the day, you can check in with your own mind: Is it cloudy or sharp? Anxious or relaxed? Busy or still? You don’t have to “fix” it — just notice: “Ah, the mind is racing today.” “The mind feels heavy this morning.” “The mind is quite light right now.” Seeing the mind clearly helps us not take it so personally. It’s just weather — passing through the sky of awareness.

Fourth, he watched thoughts and tendencies come and go. This means noticing: “Oh, that’s a craving thought.” “Here’s anger arising.” “Here’s compassion, here’s patience — good seeds to water.” In daily life, we often act on autopilot. But when we pause and see a habit arise — whether helpful or harmful — we give ourselves a choice. “I don’t have to believe everything I think.” “I can meet this moment with more kindness, more awareness.”

When we ground ourselves in these simple kinds of mindfulness — body, feelings, mind, and mental patterns — something shifts. We start to respond instead of react. We stay steady in discomfort. We enjoy small joys more deeply. We catch unhelpful patterns before they take over. Like Ven. Anuruddha, we learn that even when life hurts — whether it’s physical pain, stress, or emotional difficulty — we can stay rooted. The storm might pass through the body, but it doesn’t have to knock down the heart.

Try saying this to yourself sometime today — maybe when you’re tired, frustrated, or just need a breath:

“I am aware of this body. I am aware of this feeling. I am aware of this mind. I see the patterns moving through me — and I am not swept away. I return to presence, again and again.”

One breath. One moment. One choice at a time. That’s how we dwell in mindfulness — even on ordinary days.

Link: https://wisdomtea.org/2025/07/24/staying-steady-through-the-day/